{"id":3817,"date":"2020-03-28T16:11:21","date_gmt":"2020-03-28T16:11:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/47.244.21.17\/?p=3817"},"modified":"2021-05-05T10:13:49","modified_gmt":"2021-05-05T10:13:49","slug":"dating-chinese-girl","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/api.thatsmandarin.com\/blog\/dating-chinese-girl\/","title":{"rendered":"Dating a Chinese Girl: Your Ultimate Guide 2020"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Want to date a Chinese girl?<\/p>\n

Many westerners think Asian girls are exotic not only because of their appearance but also because of their mentality. Some European people would love to\u00a0find a Chinese girlfriend<\/a>\u00a0because they want to look for something different.<\/p>\n

And yet, it will be a good idea to know a bit about what it is like to be in a relationship with a Chinese girl before starting it. We hope you’ll find the answers to this question in this article.<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s your Guide to Dating a Chinese girl.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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1. Dining<\/h3>\n

If a guy wants to take his Chinese girlfriend out for dinner, he is expected to pay for everything. The phrase \u201cgo Dutch\u201d is despised by most Chinese girls. In that, it more or less prevents men from showing their generosity.<\/p>\n

Although a Chinese girl usually doesn\u2019t need to pay a single penny when having lunch or dinner<\/a> with her boyfriend at a restaurant, she is not going to be restrained from ordering expensive dishes. Moreover, a Chinese guy will \u201cencourage\u201d her girlfriend to order whatever she likes in order to demonstrate chivalry.[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/www.thatsmandarin.cn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/dating-chinese-girl-6.jpg” alt=”Dating a Chinese Girl | That’s Mandarin” title_text=”dating-chinese-girl-6″ align=”center” _builder_version=”4.5.6″ _module_preset=”default” width=”93%” width_tablet=”36%” width_phone=”100%” width_last_edited=”on|tablet” module_alignment=”center” custom_padding=”32px||||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”0px||30px||false|false” custom_padding_phone=”” custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” border_radii=”on|5px|5px|5px|5px” transform_styles__hover_enabled=”on|hover” transform_scale__hover=”103%|103%” transform_scale__hover_enabled=”on|hover” transform_translate__hover_enabled=”on|desktop” transform_rotate__hover_enabled=”on|desktop” transform_skew__hover_enabled=”on|desktop” transform_origin__hover_enabled=”on|desktop”][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”4.5.6″ _module_preset=”default” custom_padding=”0px||0px||false|false”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.5.6″ _module_preset=”default” width_tablet=”” width_phone=”” width_last_edited=”on|desktop” max_width_tablet=”” max_width_phone=”” max_width_last_edited=”on|desktop”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”4.5.6″ _module_preset=”default”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.6.5″ _module_preset=”default” link_text_color=”#2472b3″]<\/p>\n

2. Shopping<\/span><\/h3>\n

Chinese girls are addicted to shopping. The amount of time they spend on Taobao (the most popular online shopping website in China) every day is an explicit reflection of their passion for shopping.
\nHowever, they would still like to go and visit physical stores<\/a> at weekends. Just because they will have the opportunity to try clothes on. Well, shopping with a Chinese girl is considered a marathon rather than a sprint. Chinese girls can only make a final decision as to what they want to buy after going from one shop to another.<\/p>\n

Sometimes they don\u2019t even have a clue what they want. All they like to do is to wander around different shops in case something interesting pops up. Finally, a Chinese girl expects her boyfriend to carry some of her shopping bags (sometimes even her handbag) on their way home.[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/www.thatsmandarin.cn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/dating-chinese-girl-1.png” alt=”Dating a Chinese Girl | That’s Mandarin” title_text=”dating-chinese-girl-1″ align=”center” _builder_version=”4.5.6″ _module_preset=”default” width=”93%” width_tablet=”36%” width_phone=”100%” width_last_edited=”on|tablet” module_alignment=”center” custom_padding=”32px||||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”0px||30px||false|false” custom_padding_phone=”” custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” border_radii=”on|5px|5px|5px|5px” transform_styles__hover_enabled=”on|hover” transform_scale__hover=”103%|103%” transform_scale__hover_enabled=”on|hover” transform_translate__hover_enabled=”on|desktop” transform_rotate__hover_enabled=”on|desktop” transform_skew__hover_enabled=”on|desktop” transform_origin__hover_enabled=”on|desktop”][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”4.5.6″ _module_preset=”default” custom_padding=”0px||0px||false|false”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.5.6″ _module_preset=”default” width_tablet=”” width_phone=”” width_last_edited=”on|desktop” max_width_tablet=”” max_width_phone=”” max_width_last_edited=”on|desktop”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”4.5.6″ _module_preset=”default”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.6.5″ _module_preset=”default” link_text_color=”#2472b3″]<\/p>\n

3. Surprise awaits!<\/h3>\n

Chinese girls love surprises. However, a bundle of flowers or a box of chocolate won\u2019t cheer them up that much. In China, Chinese guys often need to save money for a month or two to surprise their girlfriends in an \u201ceffective\u201d way.<\/p>\n

Instead of chocolate and flowers, most Chinese girls are more interested in designer clothes and bags. This sometimes can cost a fortune. Fortunately, they are not going to ask for something similar on a regular basis. For instance, a luxurious birthday gift<\/a> would keep them happy for a few months.[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/www.thatsmandarin.cn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/dating-chinese-girl-2.jpg” alt=”Dating a Chinese Girl | That’s Mandarin” title_text=”dating-chinese-girl-2″ align=”center” _builder_version=”4.5.6″ _module_preset=”default” width=”93%” width_tablet=”36%” width_phone=”100%” width_last_edited=”on|tablet” module_alignment=”center” custom_padding=”32px||||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”0px||30px||false|false” custom_padding_phone=”” custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” border_radii=”on|5px|5px|5px|5px” transform_styles__hover_enabled=”on|hover” transform_scale__hover=”103%|103%” transform_scale__hover_enabled=”on|hover” transform_translate__hover_enabled=”on|desktop” transform_rotate__hover_enabled=”on|desktop” transform_skew__hover_enabled=”on|desktop” transform_origin__hover_enabled=”on|desktop”][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”4.5.6″ _module_preset=”default” custom_padding=”0px||0px||false|false”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.5.6″ _module_preset=”default” width_tablet=”” width_phone=”” width_last_edited=”on|desktop” max_width_tablet=”” max_width_phone=”” max_width_last_edited=”on|desktop”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”4.5.6″ _module_preset=”default”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.6.5″ _module_preset=”default” link_text_color=”#2472b3″]<\/p>\n

4. Tell me what I am thinking<\/h3>\n

Generally speaking, Chinese girls are affectionate. However, they can be capricious when they are in a bad mood. If a Chinese girl has encountered some problems at work, she sometimes wouldn\u2019t like to talk about it with her boyfriend.<\/p>\n

She tends to get angry<\/a> without a specific reason. And then keeps silent for the whole evening. In fact, what she really wants is her boyfriend\u2019s attention. This means she wants her boyfriend to coax her into talking about her problems. Some Chinese girls think that being too straightforward with each other is not good for a love relationship.[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/www.thatsmandarin.cn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/dating-chinese-girl-7.jpg” alt=”Dating a Chinese Girl | That’s Mandarin” title_text=”dating-chinese-girl-7″ align=”center” _builder_version=”4.5.6″ _module_preset=”default” width=”93%” width_tablet=”36%” width_phone=”100%” width_last_edited=”on|tablet” module_alignment=”center” custom_padding=”32px||||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”0px||30px||false|false” custom_padding_phone=”” custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” border_radii=”on|5px|5px|5px|5px” transform_styles__hover_enabled=”on|hover” transform_scale__hover=”103%|103%” transform_scale__hover_enabled=”on|hover” transform_translate__hover_enabled=”on|desktop” transform_rotate__hover_enabled=”on|desktop” transform_skew__hover_enabled=”on|desktop” transform_origin__hover_enabled=”on|desktop”][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”4.5.6″ _module_preset=”default” custom_padding=”0px||58px||false|false”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.5.6″ _module_preset=”default” width_tablet=”” width_phone=”” width_last_edited=”on|desktop” max_width_tablet=”” max_width_phone=”” max_width_last_edited=”on|desktop”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”4.5.6″ _module_preset=”default”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.6.5″ _module_preset=”default” link_text_color=”#2472b3″]<\/p>\n

5. Chinese girls VS Girls from Eastern Europe<\/h3>\n

Some people tend to compare<\/a> Chinese girls with girls from Eastern Europe, such as Russian girls. Despite the fact that there is a huge difference between them in terms of appearance, this is absolutely understandable as China and Russia used to share the same social system.<\/p>\n

Although whether a man is wealthy or not plays an important role in both countries, Chinese girls are more interested in what their boyfriends can \u201cgive\u201d them. Whereas Russian girls care more about what their boyfriends can \u201cdo\u201d for them. It\u2019s just because Russian men\u2019s chauvinism made them treat bravery and kindness as the most important qualities. In other words, if a Russian girl falls in love with a man, she probably loves him as a person.[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/www.thatsmandarin.cn\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/dating-chinese-girl-5.jpg” alt=”Dating a Chinese Girl | That’s Mandarin” title_text=”dating-chinese-girl-5″ align=”center” _builder_version=”4.5.6″ _module_preset=”default” width=”93%” width_tablet=”36%” width_phone=”100%” width_last_edited=”on|tablet” module_alignment=”center” custom_padding=”32px||||false|false” custom_padding_tablet=”0px||30px||false|false” custom_padding_phone=”” custom_padding_last_edited=”on|tablet” border_radii=”on|5px|5px|5px|5px” transform_styles__hover_enabled=”on|hover” transform_scale__hover=”103%|103%” transform_scale__hover_enabled=”on|hover” transform_translate__hover_enabled=”on|desktop” transform_rotate__hover_enabled=”on|desktop” transform_skew__hover_enabled=”on|desktop” transform_origin__hover_enabled=”on|desktop”][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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